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My 4 yr old son
I just Became a member here and I was wondering if someone could help me. About a year and a half ago (which would make my son 2 and a half) my son told me that his 18 year old uncle (my brother) sexually molested his feet. I came totally unglued. My brother lived with my mom at the time and my son stayed with my mom a lot. The reason I believed this to be true is because my brother had a foot feddish and my son wouldnt know something like that. After my son told us this my husband was ready to kill my brother. We made my brother leave and go back to his dads house. I have kept my son away from him since that day. He has not seen, talked, or had any contact whatsoever with my son. My son didn't talk about it hardly ever since that day. My brother denied ever doing it. We totally cut my brother out of our lives. I don't even consider him my brother anymore. After we got him away from my son, my son stopped hitting himself and saying things like "me stupid" and "me hate myself." I honestly did not know how to go about this situation so I thought keeping my brother away from my son, my son would forget about it. Just recently, as in a few days ago he brought up, after not talking about his uncle for a long time, that his uncle put his "peepee" in his mouth. I don't know what to do. Please someone help me. My own brother ruined my child's life and I despise my brother for what he has done. I also feel in my heart that my brother needs help, because I have had a gut feeling since this happened that he was molested also by his father, because my brother and his brother both act very weird. Please someone help me. I don't know what to do. I already keep my son away from his uncle. And I will never ever let him near my son again as long as I live. If someone can help please I really appreciate it. I feel like a horrible mother. I feel like I didn't protect my son. I love my baby boy so much and I don't want him growing up with this horrible thing his uncle did stuck in the back of his head. I have talked to him about it and I have told him that he was a very good boy for telling his father and I and that what his uncle did was very very bad. Please help. Is what I'm doing what I should be doing? Any advice at all is helpful please.
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