Just want to say hi

Hi Shenelle.  Welcome.  I have been visiting this site weekly since I saw Stacey on Oprah.  I have enjoyed Stacey's blogs, and I have engaged in stimulating conversation on topics related to abuse and sexuality.  This visit I am seeing some shady stuff.  I hope that the website manager cleans up.  I haven't been on since August.  Up until then it was a very clean site.  Just survivors sharing and supporting survivors.  This time I see junk from men.  Nasty stuff.  This is not the forum for porn and nasty stuff.  Maybe we need some security measures or something.  Anyway, I am a survivor who recently moved from Indiana to North Carolina to be near the beach.  Like Stacey, I am out living the dream, finally.  I'm loving it.  I've dreamt of living near the beach all my life, and I finally made it.  It is healing for me to walk on the beach.